Man DEVASTATED After Discovering His Fiancée Cheated Before Their WEDDING With Coworker 20 Years Older Than Her

Discovering that your partner is having an affair can be devastating especially when you are only months away from your wedding day.

A man who just had the same experience has taken to Reddit to Reddit to share the ordeal, explaining that his fiancée blamed him for working long hours.

He said that the reason he was working hard was to financially support her.

“Yesterday I met my fiancée at our wedding venue for our 4 month out meeting to finalize details,” he wrote.

“We drove to the venue separately because she was leaving straight from work. Towards the end of the meeting she let me know her friend was dropping off her rental car and needed a ride home and asked if it would be ok.”

He said that he tried to call her for the next three hours but she didn’t answer, making him very worried.

“I texted her friend and asked if she had made it to her ok,” he went on. “My fiancé ends up coming home and says sorry it took longer than expected she hung out with her friend for a bit before leaving.”

However, her friend replied and said she had not seen his fiancée that day.

He then secretly checked her phone and found a call to an unknown number. When he confronted her, she simply avoided the topic.

“I thought maybe I’m crazy here I need to chill and sleep on it,” he wrote.

“This morning I asked her to please see the text from her friend asking her to pick her up and I would apologize for questioning her the previous night. She said no.

“I said when I caught up to you yesterday on the way to the venue I saw you were on the phone who was that? She said oh that’s the friend I picked up later on. That’s when I knew for a fact she was lying.”

The mystery coworker is 20 years older than her with multiple children from a previous marriage.

In an update post, the heartbroken man said that she blamed him for the affair, saying that if he wasn’t working long hours it wouldn’t have happened.

Reddit users were quick to offer their advice, with one person writing: “Standard cheater victim-blaming. Don’t let her pin this on you.”

Another wrote: “Small consolation I know, but better now than after the wedding. Better now than after potentially starting a family.”

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